Ten Ways to Poison the Debate

There is an excellent piece in the Philadelphia Daily News editorial section today. It is written by Linda S. Wallace who runs Cultural Coach, and writes a blog called Cultural IQ. In “10 Ways to Poison the Debate”, Ms. Wallace is addressing the presidential candidates, however her advice applies to any discourse.

It might do well for some bloggers and commenters to read this article.

The “10 Ways…” are listed below. The column at its original source expounds on each one of them.

1. Instead of seeking a discussion of facts or truth, shut down the conversation right away by announcing you take offense at a remark.

2. Never ask open-ended questions to clarify another speaker's position and promote discovery.

3. Always attach labels to others and throw around words such as elitist, racist, conservative or liberal when describing them.

4. Don't listen with the purpose of understanding another speaker's intent.

5. Call in the media to provide around-the-clock interpretation and analysis.

6. When responding to ideas you don't happen to agree with, never EVER say: "That's an interesting take on the issue. However, I see it a bit differently. May I explain?

7. After a speaker admits making a mistake and offers you an apology, steadfastly refuse to move forward in the conversation.

8. When discussing mistakes, never, ever use yourself as an example.

9. Attack people who aren't in the same room or same place as you.

10. Whenever possible, focus the conversation on what's wrong with 1) the world, 2) your family, 3) your neighbors, or 4) the nation) rather than their strengths.